My life’s on hold as new man keeps me hidden from ex-wife
Dear Coleen: My life's on hold as new man keeps me hidden from ex-wife
I’ve been seeing a guy I’m in love with since June. He’s separated from his wife and they have two children together.
My problem is, he doesn’t want his ex or his kids knowing we’re in a relationship because he says she’d make his life a nightmare and he wants to keep her sweet in order to carry on seeing his kids when he wants to.
I understand it’s a tricky situation for him, but I hate being this dirty secret and I want us to have a normal relationship.
I have met his children a couple of times, but he’s introduced me as “Daddy’s friend from work”. They’re lovely kids and I’d like to be able to build a relationship with them.
We’ve been together for six months now and I feel that’s long enou...